Traditional Millennials get what they need

by Datechguy | August 23rd, 2011

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Traditional Millennials get what they need

Via Haemet and Rox­eanne USA today dis­cov­ers what a lot of us already knew that tra­di­tional reli­gious prac­tices, as opposed to lib­eral ver­sions, are mak­ing a big come­back:

What attracts today’s youth to such “old-​fashioned” orthodoxy?

As a mem­ber of this strange mil­len­nial cohort, I have won­dered this myself. I think the answer comes down to this: 1960s-​style lib­er­a­tion — from moral codes, fam­ily oblig­a­tions, reli­gious com­mit­ments — has betrayed us.

Some­time in the past cen­tury, a new creed emerged, say­ing every­one should make his own creed. This tol­er­ant, open-​minded ethos seemed to promise free­dom: safe sex with many part­ners, drugs and alco­hol galore and quick, no-​fault divorce. So our Baby Boomer par­ents par­tied hard, yet in so many cases left us only the hang­over: heart­break, addic­tion and bro­ken homes, plus ris­ing rates of teenage depres­sion and suicide.

The anything-​goes reli­gion of the late 20th cen­tury can­not pre­vent nor even explain these con­se­quences. (After all, if I’m OK, you’re OK, and we can do what­ever we want, why are so many peo­ple unhappy?) When every mem­ber of a soci­ety does what­ever makes him feel good, the inevitable results are not per­sonal ful­fill­ment and com­mu­nal har­mony but self­ish­ness and social breakdown.

How about that chang­ing the social norms that soci­eties have advo­cated for cen­turies is not a bright idea, who woulda thunk it? Let’s remind you of some­thing Vir­ginia Iron­side, child of the 60’s wrote in Jan­u­ary:

It took me years to dis­cover that con­tin­ual sex with dif­fer­ent part­ners is, with very few excep­tions, joy­less, uncom­fort­able and humiliating,

What is the answer I won­der? USA today again:

With these real­iza­tions in mind, many mil­len­ni­als reject the assump­tions of 1960s lib­er­a­tionists in favor of some­thing more sub­stan­tial: the creeds, prac­tices and moral codes that defined reli­gious life for cen­turies. Unlike reduc­tion­is­tic sci­en­tism or vague roman­ti­cism, tra­di­tional reli­gions pro­pose spe­cific, com­pelling expla­na­tions for the world in front of us — bro­ken, fraught with suf­fer­ing, enslaved to sin, but nonethe­less reveal­ing glimpses of beauty and greatness.

More intel­lec­tu­ally coher­ent than rel­a­tivism, ortho­doxy is also more demand­ing. It makes us place oth­ers above our­selves, the truth above what we’d like to be true, the fight for virtue above the pur­suit of plea­sure. In a word, it preaches sacrifice.

At our lit­tle polit­i­cal salon at the Bor­der I was a party to a con­ver­sa­tion about a mar­riage that began when the Man was 20 and the Woman was 19. Their 41 year and count­ing mar­riage out­lasted those of all their friends who told them they had no prayer when they walked down the aisle in 1970. When asked how they did it, the answer was a per­fect exam­ple of Catholi­cism as prac­ticed out­side of the cafeteria:

Because I was always #2. My wife was always #1. When our first kid was born I moved down to #3. Now with the chil­dren and grand­chil­dren I’m down some­where in the teens. And she thinks the same way.”

But but I thought prac­tic­ing Chris­tians are back­wards and fool­ish. After all the hosts of MSNBC and sec­u­lar­ists all know they are sim­ply igno­rant:

One of the things that Dawkin­sites tend to for­get is that great thinkers and sci­en­tists and peo­ple of rea­son have been debat­ing, writ­ing on and dis­cussing the exis­tence of God in gen­eral and the truth of Chris­tian­ity and Catholi­cism in par­tic­u­lar for cen­turies before Guttenburg’s first bible rolled off the presses. Their image of the believer is a straw man.

The mod­ernist doesn’t grasp that just because he can pub­lish a thought to the entire world in a few sec­onds that his thought is supe­rior to the great Chris­t­ian thinkers of all dis­ci­plines who came before him.

But hey, the USA today arti­cle was writ­ten before the event in Madrid. Was there really much of a turnout? The answer to that ques­tion deserves it’s own post this evening.

Via Haemet and Roxeanne USA today discovers what a lot of us already knew that traditional religious practices, as opposed to liberal versions, are making a big comeback:

What attracts today’s youth to such “old-fashioned” orthodoxy?

As a member of this strange millennial cohort, I have wondered this myself. I think the answer comes down to this: 1960s-style liberation — from moral codes, family obligations, religious commitments — has betrayed us.

Sometime in the past century, a new creed emerged, saying everyone should make his own creed. This tolerant, open-minded ethos seemed to promise freedom: safe sex with many partners, drugs and alcohol galore and quick, no-fault divorce. So our Baby Boomer parents partied hard, yet in so many cases left us only the hangover: heartbreak, addiction and broken homes, plus rising rates of teenage depression and suicide.

The anything-goes religion of the late 20th century cannot prevent nor even explain these consequences. (After all, if I’m OK, you’re OK, and we can do whatever we want, why are so many people unhappy?) When every member of a society does whatever makes him feel good, the inevitable results are not personal fulfillment and communal harmony but selfishness and social breakdown.

How about that changing the social norms that societies have advocated for centuries is not a bright idea, who woulda thunk it? Let’s remind you of something Virginia Ironside, child of the 60′s wrote in January:

It took me years to discover that continual sex with different partners is, with very few exceptions, joyless, uncomfortable and humiliating,

What is the answer I wonder? USA today again:

With these realizations in mind, many millennials reject the assumptions of 1960s liberationists in favor of something more substantial: the creeds, practices and moral codes that defined religious life for centuries. Unlike reductionistic scientism or vague romanticism, traditional religions propose specific, compelling explanations for the world in front of us — broken, fraught with suffering, enslaved to sin, but nonetheless revealing glimpses of beauty and greatness.

More intellectually coherent than relativism, orthodoxy is also more demanding. It makes us place others above ourselves, the truth above what we’d like to be true, the fight for virtue above the pursuit of pleasure. In a word, it preaches sacrifice.

At our little political salon at the Border I was a party to a conversation about a marriage that began when the Man was 20 and the Woman was 19. Their 41 year and counting marriage outlasted those of all their friends who told them they had no prayer when they walked down the aisle in 1970. When asked how they did it, the answer was a perfect example of Catholicism as practiced outside of the cafeteria:

“Because I was always #2. My wife was always #1. When our first kid was born I moved down to #3. Now with the children and grandchildren I’m down somewhere in the teens. And she thinks the same way.”

But but I thought practicing Christians are backwards and foolish. After all the hosts of MSNBC and secularists all know they are simply ignorant:

One of the things that Dawkinsites tend to forget is that great thinkers and scientists and people of reason have been debating, writing on and discussing the existence of God in general and the truth of Christianity and Catholicism in particular for centuries before Guttenburg’s first bible rolled off the presses. Their image of the believer is a straw man.

The modernist doesn’t grasp that just because he can publish a thought to the entire world in a few seconds that his thought is superior to the great Christian thinkers of all disciplines who came before him.

But hey, the USA today article was written before the event in Madrid. Was there really much of a turnout? The answer to that question deserves it’s own post this evening.

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