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General Nature of Lies

by baldilocks

We gen­er­ally think of lies as one-​off events.

There are “harm­less” lies — are they still called white lies? Women lie about their ages, their weight and how many sex­ual part­ners they’ve had. Men lie about how much money they make, the nature of their rela­tion­ship with a given woman, and how many sex­ual part­ners they’ve had.

Such lies are can vary in how much harm they do, but the harm is small in numer­i­cal scale it can only effect a small group of peo­ple. How­ever, the habit­ual liar does build a moun­tain within his/​her own soul. I think most have met at least one per­son who lies so much that he/​she believes said lies, even when a pair of lies con­tra­dict each other.

But why is it that many do not believe that a set of habit­ual liars can get together and build an entire moun­tain range of lies? And why is it that those who do believe that such a thing can hap­pen are ridiculed as con­spir­acy theorists?

Because the idea that we may be sur­rounded by mas­sive edi­fices of false­hood and have been for years, decades, and, keep-calm-the-devil-is-a-liar-and-the-father-of-all-liespos­si­bly, cen­turies, is too much for peo­ple to bear. Nor­malcy bias exists for a rea­son. One of those rea­sons: with­out this nor­malcy as an exis­ten­tial basis, many peo­ple will go insane and will do so because they per­ceive that there is no other basis. With­out the nor­malcy per­cep­tion, exis­tence becomes a black hole for them.

Cur­rent Level of Decep­tion” – a friend coined this phrase and I have been enam­ored of it since hear­ing it. Among other things, it is an acknowl­edge­ment that forces beyond our five senses exist – both good and evil.

Bless­edly, the Liv­ing God has good inten­tions toward those who acknowl­edge His being and who trust Him. But one of His aspects is that He is the Truth. I think that He wants us to see what the truth is about this world, ugly though it may be. We have but to ask, seek, and be pre­pared for what we find.

And the truth about this world is, indeed, ugly as sin.

BTW: I’m in my eighth day of not smok­ing. Thank you for all your prayers, tips, and well-​wishes for my success.

Juli­ette Akinyi Ochieng blogs at baldilocks. (Her older blog is located here.) Her first novel, Tale of the Tigers: Love is Not a Game, was pub­lished in 2012. Her sec­ond novel will be done in 2016. Fol­low her on Twit­ter.

Please con­tribute to Juliette’s JOB: Her new novel, her blog, her Inter­net to keep the lat­ter going and COF­FEE to keep her going!

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by baldilocks

We generally think of lies as one-off events.

There are “harmless” lies—are they still called white lies? Women lie about their ages, their weight and how many sexual partners they’ve had. Men lie about how much money they make, the nature of their relationship with a given woman, and how many sexual partners they’ve had.

Such lies are can vary in how much harm they do, but the harm is small in numerical scale it can only effect a small group of people. However, the habitual liar does build a mountain within his/her own soul. I think most have met at least one person who lies so much that he/she believes said lies, even when a pair of lies contradict each other.

But why is it that many do not believe that a set of habitual liars can get together and build an entire mountain range of lies? And why is it that those who do believe that such a thing can happen are ridiculed as conspiracy theorists?

Because the idea that we may be surrounded by massive edifices of falsehood and have been for years, decades, and, keep-calm-the-devil-is-a-liar-and-the-father-of-all-liespossibly, centuries, is too much for people to bear. Normalcy bias exists for a reason. One of those reasons: without this normalcy as an existential basis, many people will go insane and will do so because they perceive that there is no other basis. Without the normalcy perception, existence becomes a black hole for them.

“Current Level of Deception” – a friend coined this phrase and I have been enamored of it since hearing it. Among other things, it is an acknowledgement that forces beyond our five senses exist–both good and evil.

Blessedly, the Living God has good intentions toward those who acknowledge His being and who trust Him. But one of His aspects is that He is the Truth. I think that He wants us to see what the truth is about this world, ugly though it may be. We have but to ask, seek, and be prepared for what we find.

And the truth about this world is, indeed, ugly as sin.

BTW: I’m in my eighth day of not smoking. Thank you for all your prayers, tips, and well-wishes for my success.

Juliette Akinyi Ochieng blogs at baldilocks. (Her older blog is located here.) Her first novel, Tale of the Tigers: Love is Not a Game, was published in 2012. Her second novel will be done in 2016. Follow her on Twitter.

Please contribute to Juliette’s JOB:  Her new novel, her blog, her Internet to keep the latter going and COFFEE to keep her going!

Or hit Da Tech Guy’s Tip Jar in the name of Independent Journalism—->>>>>baldilocks