30 Tips to stay Married 30 years Today’s Tip: Pray

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30 Tips to stay Married 30 years Today's Tip: Pray

Rev John With­er­spoon: Nowhere do you men­tion the supreme being. Why surely this is an over­sight as how can we expect to win our inde­pen­dence with­out his help, there­fore I humbly offer the fol­low­ing addi­tion to your final para­graph: ‘With the firm reliance on the pro­tec­tion of divine providence.’

1776 (1972)

In the end any rela­tion­ship is a case of putting up with another per­son and no mat­ter how much you love, admire and esteem them, in the end there it’s all about being able to cope when the sit­u­a­tion isn’t what you’d like it to be.

This is why prayer is so impor­tant here.

Prayer places your sit­u­a­tion before one who is greater than the two of you. One who like a lov­ing father wishes the suc­cess of your mar­riage and most impor­tantly has both your and your spouses best inter­ests at heart.

Fur­ther­more reg­u­lar prayer for your mar­riage cre­ates a in imper­a­tive to con­tinue to work at a mar­riage, even when things are not going as you might want. By keep­ing that imper­a­tive you will find your­self implic­itly work­ing toward the very goal you have in mind.

Both Jesus and St. Paul say that mar­riage cre­ates a sin­gle flesh, reg­u­lar prayer feeds the spir­i­tual needs of that sin­gle body and will pay div­i­dends far beyond one’s understanding.

It’s worth not­ing that this tip was once com­mon knowl­edge, as the Ven­er­a­ble Fr. Patrick Pay­ton said: “The fam­ily that prays together stays together” and at the time when this was the norm, fam­i­lies did.

Take advan­tage of the wis­dom of your great grand par­ents and pray for your mar­riage and your spouse. You won’t regret it.

The 30 Tips to Say Mar­ried 30 years so far

Tip 1: Choose Wisely
Tip 2: A long Engage­ment
Tip 3: Get Mar­ried in Church
Tip 4: Don’t write your own vows.
Tip 5: Set lim­its early
Tip 6: Live Mod­estly
Tip 7: Embrace Your Mother-​In-​Law
Tip 8: If pos­si­ble take advan­tage of your parent’s advice.
Tip 9: Don’t Diss your spouse to your friends
Tip 10: Remem­ber Birthday’s and Anniver­saries
Tip 11: 30 Tips to Stay Mar­ried 30 Years Today: NEVER VENT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!

Rev John Witherspoon: Nowhere do you mention the supreme being. Why surely this is an oversight as how can we expect to win our independence without his help, therefore I humbly offer the following addition to your final paragraph: ‘With the firm reliance on the protection of divine providence.’

1776 (1972)

In the end any relationship is a case of putting up with another person and no matter how much you love, admire and esteem them, in the end there it’s all about being able to cope when the situation isn’t what you’d like it to be.

This is why prayer is so important here.

Prayer places your situation before one who is greater than the two of you. One who like a loving father wishes the success of your marriage and most importantly has both your and your spouses best interests at heart.

Furthermore regular prayer for your marriage creates a in imperative to continue to work at a marriage, even when things are not going as you might want. By keeping that imperative you will find yourself implicitly working toward the very goal you have in mind.

Both Jesus and St. Paul say that marriage creates a single flesh, regular prayer feeds the spiritual needs of that single body and will pay dividends far beyond one’s understanding.

It’s worth noting that this tip was once common knowledge, as the Venerable Fr. Patrick Payton said: “The family that prays together stays together” and at the time when this was the norm, families did.

Take advantage of the wisdom of your great grand parents and pray for your marriage and your spouse. You won’t regret it.

The 30 Tips to Say Married 30 years so far

Tip 1:  Choose Wisely
Tip 2: A long Engagement
Tip 3: Get Married in Church
Tip 4: Don’t write your own vows.
Tip 5: Set limits early
Tip 6: Live Modestly
Tip 7: Embrace Your Mother-In-Law
Tip 8: If possible take advantage of your parent’s advice.
Tip 9: Don’t Diss your spouse to your friends
Tip 10: Remember Birthday’s and Anniversaries
Tip 11: 30 Tips to Stay Married 30 Years Today: NEVER VENT ON SOCIAL MEDIA!