This is one piece of advice that is completely conditional for several reasons:
- 1. Many people are getting married later so it is very possible that their parents are no longer alive.
- 2. In this era many people have divorced parents separated by distance or come from a single parent household and never knew one of them.
Nevertheless if you are in a position to get the advice of a parent by all means take it.
Your parents whether successful or not in marriage themselves not only bring years of life experience to the table but are a source of unconditional love and support. There are going to be times when you need to vent in a marriage and such venting is best with a person with more life experience than you.
Thanks to current technology you are in a position to speak to parents “face to face” on a daily basis in a way that couples in the past can not. Of course if they live close enough to be directly engaged with your family on a regular basis it is even better.
Parents are the best choice, they can see things from outside of a circle of friends, furthermore they are less likely to have a side agenda that they are trying to promote.
Your parents want your life to work, let them help you.
A final thought, if for whatever reason parents are unavailable or inappropriate for such advice, an older Uncle or Aunt can serve this function.
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